I have recently came across an article in a magazine which I find it very interesting and holds true based on the life that I am going through.
The summary of the article by David Koh, the Founder and Principal for Malaysian Institute of Geomancy Sciences. In this article, it mentions that One's destiny in life is determined by what I call the '4Rs'. It simply means that success is about being in the right place with the right people and saying the right thing at the right time. Everything happens for a reason".
1) right place
2) meeting the right people
3) do the right thing
4) at the right time
So is there anything you could do about your life? The answer is no, everything is fated. If Mark Zuckerberg did not meet the Winklevoss twins during his years in Harvard, then there won't be Facebook today. It was the Winklevoss twins that have given him the idea of Facebook.
I believe things happen for a reason and is fated. You are not the destiny to be somebody, then there is no point forcing it, cause no matter how hard you try, you won't be making it, unless you have the luck of the "4Rs". Do you ever experience in your life, no matter how hard you try, you are still not achieving it? However, your average Joe Next Door, is just slumbering throughout his life, but is making it big time as compared to you. That is because he always have the "4Rs" with him.
So what is the message that I would like to share in this post? What will happen, will happen, what's yours will be yours. It is all in your destiny when you were born. No need to stress out, no need to force it, just take things easy and appreciate and enjoy life. After all, life is short.